Be patient
Imam Ali (PBUH) says:
“ وَ عَوِّدُوا أَنْفُسَكُمُ الْحِلْمَ
And train yourselves to patience.”
In the Quran, God says to the believers: “O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer, for God is with the patient.”[Al-Baqarah 153]
A person deserves to train himself to be patient and to practice patience in various circumstances: patience in jihad, patience in poverty, patience in enduring difficulties, patience in providing for the expenses of life and family, patience in raising children, patience in helping someone who has suffered, patience in the face of the words of ignorant people, patience in the absence or death of loved ones, and in short, in any place where patience is needed.